I've always been a loud and proud Tampa advocate. I've written songs about it. I've talked about it in my advice column. I've written long and rambling essays speaking of my love for this strange, off-beat city. I came here in October 1998. I planned on being long gone by 2000. But the years crept by. And I stayed. I learned the most things I've ever learned while living in Tampa. I learned how better deal with my constantly buzzing head. I've learned how to sing better. I've learned how to deal...

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I went on WMNF's "Sonic Detour" with Flee to promote my new album. As part of the show, people called in to ask Dear Gloffy questions.  In this column I am answering a couple of the questions I didn't get a chance to answer on air. Enjoy!Dear Gloffy.I found women's clothing in the bottom of my husband's sock drawer. Should I tell him I found them and risk him knowing I was a snoop? Hell, should I just go out shopping for him and surprise him with a bra?  Signed,Girl Caught Of...

Dear Gloffy,I've fallen desperately in love with a guy with a drinking problem. I have the occasional drink ... but when we go out together, I end up embarrassed at best or carrying him out of the bar at worst. I talked to him about it and he doesn't think he has a problem. I don't want to live without him ... but I can't deny he has a problem.Signed,Tired and Sad Dear Tired,There's a certain romance to the addict and his addiction. Perhaps in some circles your boyfriend might be heralded a...